The second child wardrobe: how to hand clothes down well

My third child has worn more hand-me-downs than anything bought new, and honestly? Some of those pieces are still going strong after five years of rotation. The key is how you handle them from the beginning.

Buy with handdown in mind

This sounds simple but it changes how you shop. Pieces in neutral colours, quality construction, and classic cuts will hand down easily. A neon slogan tee that was extremely 2022 will not. When I was designing Cubs Closet, I thought hard about whether each piece would still feel current two or three years from now.

Store them properly between children

Clean thoroughly before storing — any residual stains will set and become permanent. Store in breathable bags or boxes (not plastic) in a cool, dry spot. Label clearly by size.

Check for wear before assuming they're done

Before passing something on, check the knees, the elbows, the underarms, and the collar. If it's worn through, it's had a good life. If it's still sound, it has plenty more.

Let the younger child own them

Hand-me-downs can feel like a consolation prize if they're always framed that way. But if you present them as "these were great and now they're yours," most kids receive them happily. The ones that don't: let them pick something new from those pieces to make their own.

When to let go

If a garment has done its time across your family, pass it further to a friend's child, a local group, or a good op shop. The goal is maximum use from every garment.

Our pieces are designed to survive this whole journey. Shop the range.

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